Hurt People Hurt Other People
Hurt People Hurt Other People
The way people act towards the outside world illustrates what's going on in their inner world. When someone attempts to make you feel inadequate, it's because they feel inadequate themselves. Understanding this will help you handle related situations more effectively.
For example, sadness makes people act bitterly and without love, pain and internal suffering claw us into a low vibration. It causes a domino effect of hurt, because all too often people aren't in a good mood because they've been hurt by someone else who wasn't in a good mood. These newly hurt people then hurt other people, and on it goes.
But trying to heal pain by inflicting it on others doesn't work. The Indian guru and spiritual teacher Osho once likened this to banging on a wall. His view was that attacking others to relieve your pain is like someone being angry and then taking it all out on a wall, trying to cause it damage. They don't define the wall and the wall doesn't have the problem - they do. Eventually they'll end up more hurt, even though the wall has not hurt them itself.
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